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Chapter 11 - Sin #10 — Judging by Appearance

"Do not judge by appearances, but judge with right judgment."

— John 7:24 (ESV)

The human eye is quick to size people up. In an instant, we can label someone: rich or poor, good or bad, worthy or unworthy—just by what we see. This sin is subtle but dangerous. When we judge by appearance, we replace spiritual discernment with superficial assumption.

We forget that God doesn't see as we see.

"The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart." — 1 Samuel 16:7

🔥 When Sight Becomes Superficial

Judging by appearance can take many forms:

Looking down on someone for their clothes, skin, age, or background

Assuming someone is holy or wise just because they look spiritual

Rejecting someone because they don't fit our idea of beauty, success, or worth

Showing favoritism or prejudice based on outer appearance

James warns believers against showing partiality:

"If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes... have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?" — James 2:3–4

Outward impressions lie. God calls us to look deeper.

👁️ A Call to Righteous Judgment

Jesus didn't say, "Never judge." He said, "Judge rightly."

That means looking at people through the lens of truth and mercy—not just what you see on the surface.

Ask:

What kind of heart does this person have?

What wounds or battles might I not see?

How does God view this person?

When we judge others by appearance, we not only dishonor them—we dishonor God's image in them.

🙏 How to Guard Against Surface Judgments

Slow down your assumptions

Train your eyes to pause before you form opinions. (James 1:19)

Ask God for discernment

Ask for insight to see others with clarity and compassion. (Proverbs 2:3–5)

Remember your own flaws

No one wants to be judged by their worst moment—or their outward shell.

Speak value into others

Build up instead of tearing down. Call out God's image in people.

🧎 Prayer to See with God's Eyes

"Lord, forgive me for the times I've judged others by what I see. I've let my eyes form opinions without love or truth. Teach me to see people the way You do—to look at the heart, not the surface. Help me to reflect Your grace and to treat everyone with dignity and mercy. In Jesus' name, Amen."

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